How to hold a conversation with a girl

The first conversations are difficult, especially with a girl. Here's everything you need to know to hold a conversation effortlessly.

How to hold a conversation without effort

It does not matter if you try to impress your new find on a first meeting, or seduce a girl in a first conversation. The most important thing to remember is to avoid the awkwardness of getting into the conversation. If your new friend feels awkward, chances are, she would want to slip away from you as soon as possible or she would be praying for you to leave her alone. And you really can not get a girl's attention if all you're doing is focusing on getting a follow-up instead of staying back and enjoying those first minutes of your conversation, can you?

How to make these first minutes work in your favor

Awkwardness always finds a way to crawl into a first conversation in the first few minutes. If you can make sure your first few minutes with a girl you love are exciting and fun, she may be eager to hang around you all evening.

Keep a few conversation makers in mind, depending on where you are. The location and reason for the pickup are always great conversation starters, whether it's a cocktail offered by your friend or an appointment on a Friday night after work. And from there, all you need to do is hold the conversation ...

How to hold a conversation in 3 steps

To hold a conversation, there are only 3 things you need to keep in mind. Once you have spent the day and jokes, use these three tips to make the conversation happy.

Open questions

 If you are interested in extending the conversation, always ask open questions. Answer any question you are asked by another question so that your new friend can answer you with their own points of view.

Use their answers to create more questions

If the person you are talking to says they like something, use their answer to create more questions to learn more about their interests. With each new question you ask, you will be able to see several other questions that can help you learn more about the girl, and at the same time make her feel more involved.

Compliments 

"I'm glad to meet you here, or this place would be such a hole. Saying something nice will help the person warm up better for you. A compliment or two is a nice break from the typical Q & A conversation.